My one year anniversary date for being in CoDA is approaching.  When I look back at where I was just 12 months ago and where I am today, I cannot believe the growth and healing I have accomplished in such a short period of time.

I can remember when I first began going to CoDA, I would cry each time I shared.  I felt broken and tired.  But I diligently stuck with the program, going on a weekly basis.  I began to witness how the program worked in my life.  It was subtle, and yet powerful as clarity graced my daily life.  I could identify the maddening cycles that needed breaking; the toxic relationships that needed letting go; the taming of craziness that surrounded me in my neediness of others; and the ability to set healthy boundaries and reinforce them without feeling guilty.

And there were times during my recovery that I felt I no longer needed CoDA, that CoDA was for “those other people.”  But when I set aside my judgment and began to focus on me, I was “those other people.”  I also realized “those other people” would be key instruments in my healing process through their sharing, support, loyalty and friendship.

I have so much appreciation for what CoDA has done in my life.  I now have an active on going relationship with my Higher Power.  And when I put my Higher Power first in my life, everything else seems to fall peacefully into place.  I have witnessed miracles upon miracles during my recovery process which validates my purpose for being here on earth.

So in closing, I would like to encourage all those who desire healthy relationships in their lives, to give CoDA an honest try of at least 6 meetings before determining to continue or not.  Let it work in your life and prove itself to you; you will be happier having done so!

Marcia C.