Co-NNections Recovery Stories

Entering CoDA has made me aware – Jan 12, 2021

After being in an eight year long relationship, where we broke up and returned four times, it came to an end. From the first breakup I knew I couldn’t live without him, I just remembered the good. We tried it three more times, we were even going to get married, but again my deepest fear came back. I no longer trusted him. I couldn’t look him in the eye anymore. However, when I was alone, I would forget that and I would want to return to this pointless relationship. Entering CoDA has made me aware of what I need vs what my mind thinks it needs.

Después de estar en una relación de 8 años, donde 4 veces terminamos y volvimos, llegó a su fin. Desde la primera vez que acabó supe que no podría vivir sin él, solo recordaba lo bueno, lo intentamos tres veces más, hasta íbamos a casarnos, pero de nuevo mi más profundo temor volvía, ya no confiaba en él, sin embargo cuando estoy sola, lo recuerdo y quisiera volver a esta relación sin sentido. Entrar a CoDA, me ha dado conciencia de lo que necesito vs lo que mi mente cree necesitar. Ya no podría verlo a los ojos igual.

Laura N. – 10/16/20

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